Rules for Happy Marriage

I was having my break off back to Miri for the weekend. I really need a break after all since last week was my bad day. (You may want to read my previous blog to find out). After all, It also good for me. I managed to survey some of the thing I really needs to do in my life. The biggest commitment I want to do this year and next year is for my preparation for my marriage life. Guest it not really easy to plan for the wedding after all. Allot things need to be done. But still allot thing need to be done. After all I never get marry before and this going to be the first time. I just managed to do my wedding budget. Since many things need to cut here and there. Things getting expensive. But with the budget cut, I still able to plan for the wonderful wedding for me and Yen Ling. I prefer to have my wedding reception in Labuan. I like there and hope to be there. After all I found the best location for my wedding dinner will be. It near the beach site and at the poolside. It would be a wonderful wedding reception with Chinese style dinner. I find it more interesting for me because I want it to be different from other Chinese style wedding reception that used to be. Guest almost every chinese couple will plan almost for the same wedding reception i.e. having in restaurant or hall indoor style. After all, I will marry 1 time in my life time only. And it would be a great story to put into my wedding album.



But still allot things I need to do. And I just have less than a year to do the planning and most importantly to save money. Otherwise my Yen Ling would be very very angry with me. hehehe... Time just cannot wait any longer for us to enter into marriage life.

I really need to understand the Philosophy of Rules for Happy Life and to apply it.... (Below is one of it)

Rules for Happy Marriage

Never both be angry at the same time;
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire;
If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your wife;
If you have to criticize, do it lovingly;
Never bring up mistakes in the past;
Neglect the whole world, rather than each other;
Never go to sleep with arguments unsettled;
At least one everyday try to say one kind or complimentary word;
When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it;
It takes two to make a quarrel and the one is in the wrong is the one who does most of the talking;